Simple solutions to your most common curiosities.

1. The Necessary Bureaucracy & Travel

What's the best route for my grand arrival?

The path of least resistance is flying direct from Manila to Panglao Airport (TAG). If you have side trips to other islands before the festival, try to land at Clark International Airport (CRK). All small propeller planes to El Nido and Siargao fly out from there (Not Manila!) So careful on the planning. Clark is 90km north of Manila.

Alternatively, you can fly to Cebu City and then embark on a character-building journey involving a fast craft ferry across to Bohol. It's scenic, if you enjoy worrying about luggage.

Do bear in mind that Panglao International Airport isn't just a local hop, skip, and a jump; it's quite the international hub for those coming from the west.

The airport is currently connected to both Seoul and Busan in South Korea, meaning if you fancy flying Korean Air, or prefer to route your travels through Seoul from Europe, USA or UK for a cheeky pit stop perhaps to indulge in some K-Pop culture and authentic Korean cuisine before island life, you can jet directly into Panglao Island from there. A marvellous bit of convenience, that.

How does one navigate from the airport to the hotel?

Panglao is blessedly tiny, so you won't get lost in a metropolis. You can snag a taxi or a local tuktuk (a motorised tricycle) right outside. The journey should take a mere 10-15 minutes, provided the driver hasn't stopped for a quick chat with his cousin. Ask your resort for an airport transfer if you prefer to be met by a chap holding a sign with your name spelled incorrectly.

Do I need special paperwork, or can I just wander in?

Do check with your own country's foreign office, as we aren't immigration lawyers! Generally, if you're not planning a permanent residency (or a minor coup), your tourist visa is likely fine for the allotted time (30-120 days). But confirm it, just to be safe.

What's the latest bureaucratic hoop I must jump through?

Ah, the e-Travel Registration. This is not a suggestion; it is MANDATORY. You must complete this official online form up to 72 hours before your flight. No form, no entry. It’s the Philippine version of paying the Congestion Charge. Get it sorted here. Pip pip!

Are you providing a luxury bus service for the events

We are chartering a big bus, but only for the Jungle Cruise on Day One. For everything else, you are quite capable of securing your own transport. Tuktuks and taxis are readily available at all our recommended resorts, which we ensured are all within a blessedly short, 20-minute journey of the venue. You’re on holiday, after all, a bit of adventure won't hurt.

What sort of coin do they use, and must I bring wads of cash?

The local tender is the Philippine Peso (PHP). While the swankier establishments accept plastic, your tuktuk driver, bless his cotton socks, will only accept cold, hard cash. Keep a decent stack of small bills handy unless you fancy negotiating your fare with an empty wallet.

To put it in perspective:

San Miguel Beer: £0.84–£1.68

Gin and Tonic: £2.10–£3.50

Bottle of water: £0.28–£0.70

Breakfast buffet at a hotel: £4.90–£10.50

Bottle of champagne: £35.00–£84.00

Now that’s what you call a proper holiday bargain.

What will the weather be like? Will my expensive linen survive?

October is the Filipino equivalent of a 'changeable' British summer. It marks the shoulder season, meaning we’re escaping the worst of the monsoon. Expect glorious sunshine, followed by dramatic, short-lived tropical downpours. Highs hover around a rather sweaty 29°C to 32°C, so leave the tweed at home.

2. Bedding Down & Itinerary Japes

Where am I supposed to lay my weary head?

All our suggestions, distances, and relevant travel times (so you can time your inevitable hangover) are helpfully located on the Accommodation tab of this very website. Pick a place that suits your budget and your required distance from the chaos.

Where exactly is this marriage taking place?

The entire theatrical spectacle, both the initial ceremony and the ensuing reception will unfold at the rather lovely Mithi Resort and Spa on Panglao Island. Check the Home and RSVP pages, as they are updated with military precision.

Must I attend everything, or can I just turn up for the free food?

We’d be delighted to have you at all of our weekend shindigs, but attendance is, of course, optional. However, we insist that you RSVP for the Wedding Day so we don't accidentally starve you.

Will the ceremony be a sweaty, sunburnt affair?

The ceremony is staged on a small, charming islet, a short hop from the beach. You will absolutely require sunscreen. We politely request that you refrain from bringing large umbrellas to the islet unless the heavens open, in which case a spot of dignified British queuing under an umbrella is mandatory. The reception, thankfully, will be indoors in the Mithi main pavilion, air conditioning permitting.

Am I invited to the rest of the weekend's festivities?

Yes, you lucky thing! All guests are heartily invited and welcome to register for all the scheduled events. Just ensure you RSVP to everything you plan on attending, as our planners are terribly particular about seat counts.

3. Wedding Day Etiquette (No Need for a Faux Pas)

What on earth am I supposed to wear?

The full breakdown of acceptable sartorial choices can be found on the Dress Code page. Please adhere to it, or risk being mistaken for a lost tourist.

I’ve managed to acquire a new companion; can I bring a plus-one?

You are certainly welcome to bring your new acquaintance, but please, for the love of all that is holy, individually register them for all the events they will be gracing with their presence. It saves us a rather awkward headcount later.

Are small humans permitted?

Indeed. Children are very much invited to join the celebratory pandemonium. We have even gone to the immense trouble of allocating them a dedicated kids' section at the reception, featuring appropriately low tables where they can comfortably plot mischief together.

What do you chaps want for a gift?

All the pertinent information regarding our hopes and dreams can be found on the Wedding Registry page. Your attendance is the greatest gift, naturally, but we won't stop you from being generous.

I have a terribly inconvenient allergy/dietary requirement!

When you submit your RSVP, kindly specify your affliction in the designated box. We shall forward it to the planning team with a stern note demanding they appease your culinary demands.

Am I allowed to document this blessed union with my phone?

You are welcome to snap away to your heart's content. We have employed professionals (photographers and videographers) who will be discreetly lurking to capture everything. Should you wish to remain entirely anonymous and not appear in the final cut (a truly British request), simply let us know.

4. Pre and Post Wedding Shenanigans

I'm a seasoned traveller coming over a few days before the wedding and planning to spend a full fortnight gallivanting across the islands. What, pray tell, should a chap (or chapette) get up to before and after the main event?

Well, aren't you the adventurous one? Two weeks, you say. That's practically a lifetime in paradise! The options are as plentiful as biscuits at a vicar's tea party.

If you're landing in Manila and assuming you haven't managed to bypass it entirely like a sensible person trying to avoid a bank holiday traffic jam, you'll need a couple of days to shake off that jet lag. It's a rather aggressive sort of tiredness, you see. While you're there, you might as well pop over to Intramuros for a look at a proper old Spanish fortress and some churches. It's rather historic, a bit like visiting your great-aunt Mildred's attic. If you're feeling particularly lucky, or perhaps just reckless, you can try to win back the cost of your plane ticket at the casinos. Or, if you're a proper city-slicker, the trendy, Michelin-worthy (or so we're told) restaurants in Makati and BGC are absolutely worth the faff.

If you're still not emotionally prepared to face the wedding island of Bohol, we strongly suggest you fly directly to our absolute favourite: El Nido in Palawan. This is a smashing route because, delightfully, El Nido has direct flights to Panglao (the airport for Bohol). Think dramatic limestone cliffs, lush jungle, beaches so white they're practically glowing, and snorkelling/scuba diving that'll make your jaw drop. It's a magnificent place to lose yourself for a few days. You can rough it in a charming budget hut, or if you've got the necessary funds, book a luxury cliff-side accommodation where a private, 24/7 butler will ensure you don't even have to lift a pinky to pour your own G&T.

Upon Landing in the Wedding Locale (Panglao & Bohol)

Once you've touched down on Panglao Island (which is handily connected to the larger island of Bohol by a bridge), there's still plenty to fill your schedule if you're not quite ready to socialise with the rest of the wedding rabble.

If you fancy a spot of proper peace and quiet, we highly recommend renting a car, it'll set you back about £60 a day, and motoring up to the remote, relatively virgin beaches in the north: the beautiful area of Anda. Big and boutique resorts are ready to cater to your needs up there, offering glorious solitude away from the slightly, shall we say, over-populated areas of Panglao.

On your drive across Bohol, do make a point of stopping off at a few waterfalls. Just a word of caution: there's a Kawasan Falls Bohol, which is not to be confused with the other one in Cebu. They've very sensibly decided to have one of their own.

Once you feel you've adequately cleansed your palate of reality, head south and get yourself ready for the wedding socials! If you still have a few hours to spare on Panglao, why not try the utterly mesmerising sardine run swim? The great thing about the Philippines is that there's always a friendly local chap who'll happily capture truly amazing, professional-level shots of you underwater. If scuba diving is more your thing, you'll be spoiled for choice, as Bohol is famously home to dolphins, sea turtles, and whale sharks.

Right, the wedding was a triumph, and now it's Sunday afternoon. We're waving goodbye to the happy memories and the hangover. Where on earth do we gallivant off to for the remaining two weeks of our island adventure?

Well done for surviving the celebrations! You've made it to the glorious part: the 'rest of the holiday' bit, which, as we all know, is the true reward for enduring small talk and questionable dance moves.

The newly-minted married couple have, quite splendidly, offered up their personal favourites. It's like a posh tasting menu, only with islands! You have a few magnificent choices for the next leg of your journey:

Siargao: The undisputed surf and food capital of the Philippines. If you fancy yourself as a bit of a wave-rider (or just want to watch the beautiful people who do), this is your spot. Expect a laid-back, hip vibe, perfect for chilling out or chasing waves.

Siquijor Island: Ah, the mysterious, rustic 'black magic' island. Don't fret, it's far more charming and less spooky than the name suggests. It's brilliantly low-key and less developed, making it ideal for quiet beach time and chasing waterfalls.

Cebu Island: If your post-nuptial energy is still high, head here for pure, unadulterated adventure. Canyoneering and waterfalls are the main event! The famous Kawasan Falls will see you jumping, trekking, and swimming through bright blue canyons for hours of adrenaline-fuelled fun.

Boracay Island: The old reliable. Now, listen closely: this island has had a bit of a spruce up. It closed for a while, had a major clean-up, and is now running a tighter ship. The sand is still powder-soft white, the water is crystal-clear, and it's still undeniably impressive, just be sure to check the new regulations before you go!

All the intricate details: flights, ferries, best-time-to-go, and whether a butler is included are all meticulously laid out on the Blog page.

Your main task now is to go Google everything you need to know, make a firm decision, and plan the itinerary for the rest of your two-week holiday because, after all that effort, you both absolutely, unequivocally deserve it. We all deserve it!

5. The Emergency Line

I have a highly important, burning question on the day! Who can I pester?

If you've read the FAQ and still haven't found the answer, please refer to the Contact Us page. You will find the contact details of a suitably briefed member of the wedding party (i.e., not the happy couple) who is primed to handle any minor crises, such as a rogue tuktuk driver or a misplaced fascinator.